Either/Or, Both/And

I have a “thing” for ear rings.  I really enjoy having, wearing, buying, and appreciating ear rings!  They give me a lot of pleasure.  Here are two of my most recent purchases that make me happy.  The butterfly wings I purchased at The Padre Island National Seashore.  The maker of the ear rings, dIANKA, promises that with each purchase of her ear rings one Milkweed seed packet is donated to SaveOurMonarchs.org to plant in viable pollinator habitats on the Monarch migratory route.  I really love butterflys too!

The other pair of ear rings I purchased from my niece’s store, ElizabethDaniel, in Comfort,Texas.  The smiley face reminds me of the sixties when I was growing up.  The smiley face make ME smile!

I was having a time choosing which pair I wanted to wear one day.  I thought to myself, I have choice here.  I choose ONE OF EACH!!  I don’t think any one noticed that my ear rings “didn’t match”.  That got me thinking about the idea, rather than either/or, why not both/and.

Life holds both sorrow and joy.  We can’t have one with out the other. The question is “Do we have the capacity to hold both at the same time?”

What do you think?  Let’s chat sometime.

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